Darling always loves to tear a book, how should reading enlighten do?Don’t focus on reading

2022-06-09 0 By

When doing reading enlightenment for young children, the most common problems encountered are: uncooperative, unwilling to read, and even tear books.This is the case with my friend Xiao Hong’s baby.When Xiao Hong holds her one-and-a-half-year-old son in her arms and wants to tell him a picture book, the little boy often focuses not on the contents of the book, but on the sound of the pages being torn.What’s more, while tearing, he also giggled.After several efforts, Xiao Hong gave up and said dejectedly: we can’t touch the door of parent-child reading.Does Xiao Hong look a lot like you or your friends?How do you break it in a situation like this?We might as well change the way of thinking: preschool baby reading, really can read into?Why does it have to start with “reading”?In my opinion, preschool children’s reading enlightenment focuses on cultivating their relationship with books.01 do not because children tear books, do not listen carefully and blame 1 tear books is very normal in fact, one or two year-old children tear books, it is normal.It is not that children are naughty, or that they do not love books, but that they do not understand the concept of books.Books, like anything else, are toys to play with, tools to explore the world.So, since it is a toy, a tool, the baby will not “sit and read”, but try all kinds of things, including doing some damage, to learn the texture of the book, shape, can be used for and so on.2 scold will let the child further away from the book to understand this, we do not tear the book, do not read carefully and criticize the child, with the child eye.On the other hand, if we act aggressive every time a child explores a “book,” it will make the child more resistant to books: If I touch this thing, my mother will yell at me, so I should stay away;Why should I go near it when I can’t play with it without being objected to?Therefore, parents should pay attention to their attitude – not only do not be fierce, but also follow their children to “explore” the book.3 Always let your child know that you are paying more attention to him. When a child tears out a page, especially a book, we can ask him: Why did you tear this page?Why don’t you like this one?Through such questions, can let us know more about children, enhance parent-child relationship.Also let your child know that you care about him and want to know what he thinks, not about reading.When a child feels accepted and accepted, he or she will have enough psychological resources to prepare and start reading.Summary: It is normal for children to not read well when they start to learn books. Do not blame them for this. They are just exploring in their own way.By focusing on the children and exploring with them, we can help us understand them better and overcome their rejection of books.In this way, we can develop children’s “knowledge” of books.If parents don’t read books and brush their mobile phones every day, their children will follow suit.If parents read it every day, the child thinks, “There must be something magical about books that my parents love, and I’m going to explore it.”When they start to explore, we need to give positive feedback, to affirm the child’s behavior, the child will know that the behavior of reading is good, is praised, so more willing to read, forming a positive cycle.Don’t put reading enlightenment on the back burner because of a few unpleasant readings.Nothing happens overnight, and if it does, someone is lying to you.When you set a time for reading and make it a daily ritual, it becomes a tradition in your family that is imprinted into your child’s behavior patterns.Naturally, babies will recognize the reading and the value of books.In this process, not necessarily you can succeed every time, staged touching parent-child reading drama, it is likely that the baby many times perfunctory.It doesn’t matter, stick with it.One day just introduce the title, discuss the cover painting.3. Create opportunities to read. You don’t have to “sit down” at your desk and read every word.Get your baby used to having a book in the environment to start with.Freakonomics notes that having a large library at home is highly correlated with a child’s academic success, while frequent library visits have no such effect.Later studies have found that books are so ubiquitous in our lives that children subconsciously perceive books as an essential part of their lives.When there are books everywhere in the house, it is natural for children to pick up books and read them — this is what I mean by creating opportunities and creating an environment.Conclusion: Parents make rules, insist on parent-child reading and create opportunities to cultivate children’s feelings about books. In this process, do not stress how many books you read, but focus on improving children’s understanding of books.Be sure to read it in time.It will be the egg breaking from the inside and the baby eagle soaring.Finally, I would like to say: raising children is holding the snail to go for a walk, don’t worry, to have patience and perseverance.The more leisurely you are, the happier the walk.This article ends, thanks for reading